Build Relationship Rather Than Unite

You often hear that you or other people who love each other 
Are complete with each other's presence of you
Or other peoples who loved, complete and
complement each other. 


You actually have already complete as an individual. 
You do not need to be complemented by others. 
What happens is, 
That you and other people 
who are in a relationship, 
Could be a lover, husband, best friend
Are all in charge of building a relationship with one another. 


The goal is to not overlap or combine the differences. 
As a circle, you and everyone else are a whole intact circle who meet and form a Venn diagram.


You and your boyfriend, for example,
do not combined two different individuals, 
but to build relationships that are mutually overlapping. 
Your character and your spouse 
could have collided with each other, 
but find the happiness of these differences 
by connecting with one another.


The key is that you and other people who build relationships with
Should settle among themselves
Rather than complement between themselves 
Or even worst depending on each other to be happy.


Being happy is your right
You don't  need to wait until this such wonderful feeling 
Caused by other people or parties. 


You can create your own sense of happiness for and by yourself.
Remove negative energy from within yourself

"The strategies are written and compiled in SELF from The Book of The Nine Rooms of Happiness: Loving Yourself, Finding Your Purpose and Getting Over Life's Imperfections, by Lucy Danziger and Catherine Birndorf, MD."